You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.
You can do what you decide to do - but you cannot decide what you will decide to do.
Just decide; what's it's gonna be, who you're gonna be and how your gonna do it, and then from that point, the universe will get out of your way.
Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.